I didnt know about it. She is suffering from depression, anxiety, restlessness, nightmares, physical issues and so on. Yes, we all need help and support and Im in it til death do we part. Just because shes depressed, Ive got depressed. So the question, as you insightfully pose, is where do you go from here? You're so tired. she undergoing medications and therapy but nothing could help her. The problem is somewhere else and only specialist can find it. Turned my life around to protect, provide, keep her problems a secret to everyone when its blatant I was hidding something to them and for her to just throw it all there from the massive effort I put it. The act of moving things out can be difficult to deal with. Sam is just absolute right, Ive been with the same girlfriend for 8 years, helping her to cope with her anxiety and depression, which are not mild, in return I became a cranky, fearful and highly depressed individual, as soon as she moved in with me the symptoms became severe and everything was somehow my fault, even though we always lived under my expense (before at my parents, now at a house that i pay for literally everything) shes not willing to work or do anything, she always finds an excuse why something wont work out (she has a doctors degree, and she can do a lot of things with that particular degree she simply refuses to always citing some excuse about how its never going to work). I consider myself in recovery. Ask yourself if you truly want to continue in the relationship. As I read your comments I am beginning to understand what my boyfriend feels. But I believe in him and that thought is put away. I feel im depressed, asking myself was actually our sexlife good becuase she was drinking, and that the person im with now has no interest in sex at all? Good luck and remember the love bit. We kept going on, and little by little she started becoming more and more away from me. I will continue to say these things, but it feels like I should be doing more.). "Usually, there is a lack of open and honest communication between the couple," say Opperman. I dont know what to do, I want to go out and do stuff, cant be potato couch forever. she is unable to talk to you to achieve closeness because of all she had to deal with in her head so she compensate this lack of connection by wanting more sex (sex is expression of the highest level of acceptance and intimacy with other person after all and you dont have to talk during this action) and when you refuse, because of the depressed state and has low self-esteem that accompanies it, she treats it like rejection. Shes 30 but she isnt mature enough to have any responsibility, I pity for it. Ive been going to therapy for 3 years and talking about my problems doesnt help me. If you're being dragged down by your partner, it could be due to cheating, or emotional abuse, or a lack of support. It works for me (I dont really have a hobby Im just at school all the time). She tried attempting suicide few times.Even I am loving her lot but could not make her understand.she always wants me to be around my arms! During the relationship, she refused to be medicated or to be accompanied by a psychologist. Exactly. To see a list of mental health professionals practicing in your area, simply enter your ZIP code here: What you have to realise is that she didnt chose to become depressed so to have a partner in this situation is devastating, you cant be angry and leave her because shes done nothing wrong, she still loves you as much as you love her and I promise she feels a million times worse when she has an outburst than you do. I used to be able to help her cheer up and have a good time with her whenever she was sad but now,I cant do anything without getting an attitude from her or saying something stupid. Do a "deep search" instead. She did take medications she did try psychiatrist. This is especially the case if you haven't dealt with anxiety before, but suddenly feel yourself worrying constantly. She has lost sleep all night, and so did I. If you are tired or stressed I cant do sex. To me all of these modern mental issues we see are a result of too much free time, too many choices and the conveniences we enjoy. We started dating and since after 2 months shes been depressed. I need to know, I was engaged to get married to her but we called it off. I Feel Helpless! But I really just wanted to Thank You for your post. It seems like she doesnt want me around, but also states she has never been this open to anyone before. You are in a relationship, you two must have had a reason to be with eachother. She did not want to fight, and when I thought finally thing would become better, she just said that she did not have time or energy to focus on the relationship, and wanted to focus on herself. But I feel so guilty and ashamed and like a failure for wanting this and I dont know what to do. I asked a lot of questions to learn what the problem is, all she says that everything collapses to her. Its bad and I feel so trapped. I try not to put pressure on her to be a certain way or accomplish a certain thing in a given day, but when the time comes when there is actually a really important thing she needs to do, and shes not able to do it, i feel i end up hurting her and not helping. 10 Things That Happen If Your Relationship Is Draining Your Energy 1. Recent events have dragged prices down. It drove me to breakdown myself. I am trying to help her but I could not help anymore than this.i could not concentrate on caring myself, could not eat or sleep well. Tissue Issues: My Friend Is Dragging Me Down. Now I am questioning myself whether to leave her or hold her.whether she ll feel better later on if I suppose leave her. As time went on our texts started to get more and more one sided as i would ask about her day and i would help her with any problems she had, but she would always start complaining about her problems and never actually talking about mine. And here's hoping you both can turn things around, and have a little more of that "good.". However when i asked her how shed feel if i was to hang out with other girls she said that i wasnt allowed to and that all i would do is want to have sex with them or at least have those intentions. I am not sure if Im still with her for love, for the codependency that has definitely developed or simply because I have been doing this so long I dont know any different, I have almost the exact same problem. I dont want to get to the point of carer for her or to resent her because of her condition. You will only drag yourself down in the end. Good Luck Everyone. You couldnt survive being a total mess a hundred years ago and Slowly Im staying more time at home. Step by step. Take it as a hint that things need to change. This is the person who wants what you have - your charm, your wit, your success, your intelligence, your job, your partner, whatever - and because they don't think they . I am trying to help her but I could not help anymore than this.i could concentrate on caring myself, could not eat or sleep well. "Healthy, happy relationships are where both partners meet each others' physical and emotional needs," says relationship etiquette expert Mara Opperman, in an interview with Bustle. (Cue that sad trombone. Ive explained my feelings in the past and she says she understands but makes no difference. I always tell her I enjoy how she is my first thought when i wake up and the last. From hair trends to relationship advice, our daily newsletter has everything you need to sound like a person whos on TikTok, even if you arent. One day she wanted to elope Bcos she feared the crowd at our wedding and the next day she just broke it off completely with no reasons. I can know no one would have got solution. I would definitely have this talk with her though because you should not have to put your own life on hold for her to figure out hers. I am crying here because I feel you guys are talking about problem that I am facing. She losing her best friend to cancer and she going through crisis with weight loss. Developing a strong therapeutic relationship with a clinician will afford you a much-needed opportunity to focus on yourself. If she wanted to cheat that is her choice. She has to take control of her own mind if she ever wants to get better. It almost feels as though she is in a better mood when I am down! And that is the hard and painful task to face the truth, because depression is, for me at least running away form truth, avoiding to face it. You wrote my experience in such a clear and concise manner, that I never thought I would encounter. Warm regards, In the best moments, when depression is at its weakest, the real person youve loved takes over and comes out. And the woman that i am dating right now which i do hope that my relationship lasts with her since like i mentioned earlier i really do love her very much. I was acting like it all was my boyfriends fault, and I sometimes felt like this. If you have solution, you are God for me:(. Hi everyone THAT IS PROVEN IN PSYCHOLOGY. But when you have a hobby, do make sure that you are always there for her when she needs you. Tell her its either you or the ex, no friendships either. When someone puts you down, deal with it by not immediately reacting to him. Kind regards, The GoodTherapy Team, Im going through a similar thing, Ive been with my girlfriend for 4 years, shes been through childhood trauma, depression, anxiety, borderline personality disorder, shes friendly when normal, considerate of others, respects me, whenever theres an emotional issue , though not my fault, she became destructive, recklessly destroyed everything she could see, started to be indifferent to me, aloof, aggressive, self-harm, said a lot of negative things, i love her i tried meditating and Self hypnosis to deceive my emotions, I dont know what to do, I dont know how long I can hold on, Im afraid Im really broken, it will hurt everyone. She might be craving for you to cross the distance. She wont tell me whats going on. Im the one whos always giving the support and its draining me and she doesnt appreciate it at all and said she cant feel our love anymore. She doesnt want to leave me either, because if she does she says she will kill herself. Dont worry too much about your girlfriend saying that you shouldnt talk to her anymore. Same for me. But she just cries on the phone and says shes fine. Seems like a pattern, a thing to analyse better. Read on for some of those ways. (Not married) Let her take the step and compliment her if she completes it. And at the current time, I feel stretched thin with everything going around me since everyone needs me there for them, along with being there for myself. Totally agree with your comment. Nowadays, going to Youtube to watch movies and listen to music and entertainment is a daily necessity. So what am I to her now?? Smoking and drinking! I hope my thoughts are helpful in any way, (Not married) I was in the same situation the past three and a half years. We had a lot of fun together and while she did have some mental health issues, it never caused too many problems. So are yours always casting concerned looks? It may be subtle behaviors such as never showing an interest in you or socializing with your friends, or it could be outright insults that damage your sense of self-worth. It would be way worse, and if you leave, then the relationship wouldnt be as big of a crutch and she and you can move on and grow. If she needs the ex in her life she doesnt need you, she just wants you. Hi Greg, We do talk through alot of things and have a somewhat open dialogue, but I still feel resentful and angry when i feel shes not there for me, something i dont seem to get over, despite wanting to. Ive been with my girlfriend for ten years, starting in college. If you would like to talk to a therapist or counselor, you can use our site to locate one in your area. I am fine with this, every self respecting man yearns for space of his own, so to me this was the perfect recipe. You're looking older but you can't be certain. she is unhappy with dating. It may be time to step back and focus on yourself. She would start crying, shes wanted to leave home and then denied it the next day, I try to get her to talk about whats going on but she wont. i fell as if i cant help her, im not good enough to make her happy although i try so hard and its making me doubt myself more and more. We need ways to keep the flame and love alive. Your girlfriend should know that she has the right to be an active participant in her treatment plan and to discuss changes to this plan with her clinicians. I am having the same issue and the text is most definitely NOT part of an image. If your partner isn't nice, or loving, or supportive in any way, it can leave you feeling perfectly drained of energy. All i see now is cold person who i love and so frustrated by the lack of intimacy. Copyright 2007 - 2023 GoodTherapy, LLC. Im more bummed cause were not having as much sex as Id like. And also you have to be a little tough, let her know that you understand and love (you can tell her that simply in words, she might not notice that your actions are supposed to tell it, it is also difference between sexes) her but dont be the hero here. How wrong! Do they really want help? If you have solution, you are God for me:(, I am crying here because I feel you guys are talking about problem that I am facing. Its one thing to be committed to someone and another to keep trying only to see they themselves keep failing back into the same pattern. First two years went well. A trusted therapist will help you thoroughly explore these questions, develop insights, and create and implement a plan of action. Sorry to say this but its just my own opinion. Here are 10 who are holding you down. ), It can also really take you by surprise. Im having this problem with my depressed gf too who I have been in a relationship with for almost 6 months now but lately, she changed from being caring to cold and selfish and I didnt do anything to anger her and treated her wth utmost care and lots of love since the beginning of our relationship. hello, I am this depressed girl, Our arguments are born out of nothing, she wants me to do as she wishes and doesnt believe in personal space, family commitments, having ambitions and achievoing dreams. She will need manpower to make the move happen. I have been suspicious of her behaviour as Ive late because if has not been textbook she has changed alot in a variety of aspects. Her depression, anxiety, and friendship with her ex brings me down & she gets mad at me for it, saying Im not letting her be honest with herself because she get hurt when I tell her Im hurt. I took on too much. Peace, Man, you guys are explaining my life. After everything I did, I have been there every single day, sharing my life with her, and pushing her away from this disease. Relationships are supposed to build you up, be super supportive, and make you a better person. AND finally, when everything feels fine, she doesnt acknowledge anything that happened. 1 shes too lazy 2 her parents dont let her. And thats when shit will get unbearable for the two of you. Sorry if I sound morbid but its devastating. There has to be a time limit of when to say enough is enough. It's to the point where her depression is dragging me down with her, though I would never say that to her. were so messed up its insane. She will feel a million times worse than you what about how the other side feel and how they cant cope but just have to sit and wait for them to snap out of by the time they snap out of it they could be going to their partners funeral or word they wont be able to then look after their partner. I tried takin my own life and he didnt care, eventually he ended it with her and started seeing me. Very often, when one takes on the role of caretaker, it becomes such a consuming task that the caretaker loses touch with himself/herself. She wont go to counselling nor will she take medication, she hurts herself knowing that it hurts me because it means iv failed once again to make her happy. I dealt the final blow when I advised psychological follow-up over and over again. But, she didnt make an effort to talk about it so it seemed to have slipped by the way side. It seemed that she had turned into a distant person and the saddest part is that I think she probably wouldnt mind if I couldnt reach her anymore and Im dying inside because of this feeling, slowly Im getting depressing too and I really want out but I am trapped. you're being dragged down by your partner, suddenly feel yourself worrying constantly, the balance between sleep and wakefulness, leave you feeling perfectly drained of energy. My Girlfriends Depression Is Bringing Me Down. We started dating a few months after the divorce and (I admit we could have been more responsible of our actions) she is now pregnant with our first child. It was me rationalising my emotions. 11 months ago I started dating my girlfriend and everything was amazing. Shes struggled to be present at her job, and isnt able to meet deadlines or pass things in on time. My advice to anyone going through this with a depressed person is just call it off and move on. Be willing to provide physical assistance. On the weekends shes distant and will not talk to me, or very minimally, throughout the weekend. WE ARE ALL A PRODUCT OF OUR ENVIRONMENTS. I m still jobless for more than 2yrs thinking about her problems all the time.i can marry her after getting a good job.i feel like my life is hell and but I am not selfish too. When I have some me time to save my soul from drowning because of her, she said that I was selfish for leaving her for, like, a day! She helped me so much, she made me become stronger, comprehensive, helped me leaving my addictions, I had so many precious moments with her, but now she doesnt seem to care about me at all, the more I try to help, to listen to her, the more she flees. Medication treats symptoms, but it doesnt address all of the problems that often underlie depression. She will have better and badder days and she will be back to old pattern. So even if you don't initially make the connection, your relationship could be why you're always up at night. Shawna Potter) Jim Ward. Or maybe it's because your partner is jealous, or mean, or absent. Now I am questioning myself whether to leave her or hold her.whether she ll feel better later on if I suppose leave her. I once found out my girlfriend was talking to some other guy. There is this main problem with communication between boys and girls we think a little bit differently and act too. Ive got a life, I want to be happy, to love, I am strong, I am bold, and I cant seem like to help her anymore, she doesnt want to, shes just getting away from me, Im losing her. As men we dont have an option. I completely changed from confident cheeky fit guy to someones whose fat, very low self esteem and broken. I am afraid that if I leave she will kill herself, she is completely obsessed with me and I cant escape. From past one to two years I came to know.Now it becomes severe.she suffers from anxiety , bipolar disorder. I hate her anxiety. She didnt even try to make the effort in keeping the conversation going and Im always the one who care about her when she doesnt give a thought about me and keep immersing herself in her depressive world. If that person still doesnt change then it may be time to leave. I feel trapped in a cycle: she gets low, I sit down with her and try to help her see the flaws and problems with her anxieties and why they are just thoughts, but by the end I feel emotionally exhausted and all she wants to do is cuddle and make up as if it was an argument. Friends are pretty intuitive in that they know immediately when something isn't right. I can not just do sex all the time Im not a robot. Youve managed to take care of your girlfriend and remain connected enough to yourself to come up with these questions. I love her so much, but I know Id rather deal with these issues now than a year or 2 into a relationship. And I know hes going to hate me and say I dont understand. She keeps saying this like Im not a good person & I dont think Ill ever stop feeling this way I have given her reassurance, saying Im here for it through the good and bad, but fuck it seems like Im talking to a brick wall sometimes. Do something romantic. She still will randomly text me I love you! The odd time but the girl I felt secure with seems to have left her conscience. My girlfriend has been depressed for a number of years, unable to shake feelings of sadness and hopelessness that carry over into almost every aspect of our life together. Read the book co-dependent no more. Should I leave her be and wait for her to consult me? I am very caring, soft spoken and outspoken. Reading all these comments makes me very sad and confused. I think this is the best for us at this time, as I read up in this thread I see a lot of pain caused to both people as time goes on and I dont want that to happen to either of us. She was sweet, sensitive and caring. I have honoured her decision to sort this out alone. She had many great traits and was amazing in some areas of the relationship which made it hard to think about ending the relationship when I thought I was getting so much out of it. I still dont know what to do and I feel terrible. i dont know what to do. my girlfriend has depression and is anorexic. If I go out without my phone I will find I have around 20-30 messages when I get back all telling me how selfish I am for ignoring her. My partner has depression and anxiety and this year everything on his side of life started crumbling; family, job, friends, self-esteem, personal projects. Most of you experienced it yourselves unless you are blessed with incredible good looks or a family wealth. When the relationship isn't secure, however, you might feel this nagging sense of jealousy towards everything and everyone. Can anyone help me and tell me what can i do?. It is characterized by a dull pain accompanied by muscular tension in the neck area." Right now, we value the future of our child more than anything else. I told her that i love her and i would never leave her, i forgave her cuz she lied to me, i told her that if i was with right now i would give her a hug and a kiss. When I asked her what she thinks about the future, she said it wont be happiness and that it is impossible to be happy, and that she never imagine about our relationship anymore. Its extremely helpful to be able to read something from the person suffering from depression. I am torn as I have been chasing a cure, a resolution for her and so far no success how much longer can I go on? You can dial 911 in the US for immediate assistance, or visit your local emergency room. I hope you will take another one and find some support for yourself. I let things change for the negative and even though my instinct knew something was wrong I stuck with it because I am loyal and felt love on a certain level that I thought was worth considering. You are helpful to them by being there when they need you. Your love will develop as you both learn (with help) how to manage your feelings and youll both be closer having supported one another through this difficult process, July 16th, 2016 at 5:42 AM As long as your eyes are open. I told her to leave him if he keeps bring her down. You have to start working on it, push things forward. But enough about me, what I suggest youd do is get a hobby, or something to distract you from thinking about her all the time. Before the depression she was great, and we saw each other very often. "When youre stressed, your heart starts pumping blood faster through your veins to give you energy to deal with that perceived threat," said Marcelina Hardy on BettyConfidential.com. Do you guys fight all the time? please help! The envier. After a year of being together i started to talk about how bad our sexlife and that it has changed, her reply was always that im comparing this to things i read on the internet and that what we had before is considered honeymoon period. deep thoughts in my head And they just keep dragging me down there down so deep Dragging me down so deep Dragging me down so deep Dragging me down so. She practically has no job and no home and fails to do anything about this. Once you are gone, she will find another enabler to take on her issues. We can all get through this. I really hope that it is it. Healthy couples can chat about pretty much anything. But she wouldnt want to talk some nights. She struggles to make friends and has isolated herself from the world. Shes not able to be there for me. She was not like this when we first met. My ex boyfriend left me because I was depressed all the time. I experience the exact same thing you are talking about with my girlfriend for one year. Buy she apparently can go on a day out with her ex to hang out behind her parents back.s he cant even do that for me?? I started to feel distant from her and that i dont want to be intimat to her. Assistir Sheffield Utd X Tottenham - Ao Vivo Grtis HD sem travar, sem anncios. It bothers me a lot and Ive done all I could to understand. Taking her depression into her own hands, can that make a person sick? Atlast I hate the word LOVE with cry. My girlfriend of 6 months began declining about a month ago. We used to talk all day, have very long calls every night, laugh a lot, play together. It Feels Like They Always Ask Too Much. I am seeking some advice. It's up to you to decide how to handle that. She might miss you. Setup Type: Offline Installer / Full Standalone Setup. You sound like a great boyfriend supporting her an everything.But where us your relationship right now?I mean,have you become just a caretaker for her,a shoulder to cry on?Or have you guys maintained your relationship to a good enough level so far?This is very important because what happens once she gets over her depression depends a lot on this.If she only sees you like a caretaker,there isnt much of a role for you to play when she does conquer her depression!Please reflect on this and sort things out.I know how it feels to stand by someone and then be abandoned by that same person.I would hate for that to happen to anybody else,especially to someone who has been as supportive as youve been! Im not sure whats going on but I let her know constructively that I considered leaving her I know its harsh but it was a reality check. Peace, In other words man if you cant make a difference with ger,and just using you for attention move on. First two years went well. Mariella Frostrup tells him to stop always looking on the bright side. My girlfriend has jealousy along with paranoia, anxiety, post traumatic stress disorder and some depression. I feel as much like a caretaker as I do a boyfriend. It pisses me off. I feel for all of you guys! For the potential cheating part, dont worry about it. Most of her adult life was spent trying to stabilize from bipolarity. Especially when theyre attractive they can just bounce around from bf to bf. Sometimes through the foggy clouds of depression its hard to see if a person really likes you, but dont worry too much. girlfriend is dragging me down I feel that my girlfriend is dragging me down and although she's happy in the relationship I'm not. Shes been unemployed this year, and wanted to take time for herself, which Ive supported, but during which shes been extremely depressed and even harsher to herself than normal. Its hell and theres a lot of doubt in your thoughts like is it my fault, Im I the same, can I not make someone happy, am i insensitive. It truly could be your relationship that's to blame. She lacks motivation, and can struggle to get out of bed and finds it very difficult to engage with productive in her life, that I know she wants to do, but that she feels are fake and fleeting. "So, yes, your relationship problems could lead you to suffering from high blood pressure." Look Ive been dealing with depression for years as well and yes at times i feel a bit hopeful and at other times i just want to die. I have a problem and cant find anyone to tell Found that website and the posts here are very similar to mine. Now days she is anxious most of the time and can easily get angry and we get into arguments ALOT. She is in a constant state of less sad at the best of times. I am sometimes even tempted to leave her because she is holding me down (work/school). We read your comment, and we hear your frustration and unhappiness. You create your own reality. past experiences? She has issues with everyone including mine and her family. Imagine if you stay another couple years, get married, have children, then that person does the unspeakable after that? 3. I feel really lost. Like i texted her after an hour or two and she read some of them. You are NOT responsible for the thoughts, feelings, or behaviors or others. Ive tried to think of ways to break it off that wont make her hate herself, like saying Im gay or having friends pose as drug dealers and freak her out by having them threaten me when shes around. Its created a weird dynamic in our relationship which has all but ruined our sex life. I dunno maybe thats just me. I see her every weekend, during the week I keep to myself play video games, homework, go over to a friends for a beer. So its what you make of it. I am a fighter so that was my reaction. Go with her to therapist. 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